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Published April 10, 2009 @ 21:32 by Tania in Amazing Kids

I just read a blog by another mommy blogger, and it annoyed me. Does anyone understand math? There is no such thing as 100th percentile!!!!!

What really annoyed is that this is the blog of a mother on Today's Parent's website, and she used to be an editor. I assume some level of intelligence there, so let's just hope it was a mommy brain moment.

Let me explain percentiles.

If your child is in the 99th percentile for height, for example, it means that out of 100 children the same age, your child is taller than 99 of them, or the tallest. If you try to say that your child is in the 100th percentile, or even 110th percentile (as one really dumb mother once told me), you would be incorrect. Trying to say that out of 100 children, your child is taller than all of them, including themselves, is not correct. Even worse is to claim that out of a sample of 100 children, your child in taller than 110 including himself.

Technically your child cannot be greater than the 99th percentile. If your doctor tells you that your child is in the 100th percentile, I would ask him or her to explain how that is possible. I would hope that you doctor has stronger math skills than that.

It seems like every parent, especially mothers of boys, are really into bragging how "off the charts" tall their children are. Please lets forget about comparing height! It is one thing that our children really can't control (assuming that they are eating enough!) and if they are short, it is probably because you and your spouse are short.

If, on the other side of the spectrum, your child has fallen off the chart for being small, I would say that is a cause for concern. Especially if they used to be on the chart. Doctors like to see kids stay fairly consistent in their growth pattern. A 50th percentile child stay close to the 50th, or 25th close to the 25th.

Daughter is the only one whose percentiles have raised a flag. She was born on the 75th percentile, and stayed there more or less through her first year. Her second year saw her drop down first to the 50th, then the 25th. The weird part was that through this decline, she was actually the best eater of the kids! She is now three years old, and at every visit the doctor reminds me to keep her on all full fat products and not to limit any food, even junk, to ensure that she is eating enough.

Look, I am not saying to ignore the growth charts. They have been used by doctors for a long time and they are an important tool in helping to determine the health of our children. Some interesting information? The human growth hormone is produced in bursts during the day, but released mostly during sleep - so make sure your kids are sleeping enough. Also, kids tend to grow fastest in the summer, and slowest in the fall (lucky as it is easier to get away with shorter shorts!)

What more can I say? Love your kids! And take those percentiles with a grain of salt. They are not true measure of your child, just a measurement.


Stephanie
April 12, 2009 / 16:22

The problem with those charts it that they are based on some town in Ohio in the mid 1970's, so, according to those facts (and yes... not very bright...) it is possible for children in 2009 to be taller than 100 of the kids in 1977 (I think that is the year).

You're right.. it doesn't make a lot of sense, but in the effort to try and find common ground it does work. But, given better nutrition for this current generation, I'm sure for the next generation it will make no sense since 50 kids will be above that 100th percentile.

My daughter is one of those kids. I am 5'9" (tall for my generation) and my husband is 6'9" (yes.. he is that tall). And she is in grade 3 and taller than everyone in her grade and the grade 4 class with the exception of two brothers. She is taller than some of the grade 5's and just marginally shorter than her brother (grade5) who sits in the 98th percentile.

Just a measurement.. I love my children whether they are 98th or 105th..

Good post!!


Tania
April 12, 2009 / 21:18

They talk often about reworking the charts based on more recent data, but really it is about time! I can't see why they can't come up with a better formula that takes into account parent's heights when calculating kids' expected growth patterns.
In a city as multicultural as Toronto, they still seem to fit as kids from different ethnic backgrounds can have very different growth patterns, so at least in my kids' classes, the range seems to almost. That being said, my eldest is considered over the 95th percentile for height, yet out of the 24 or so boys in his year, there are 3 that are taller, or almost15%. It can just be so frustrating when parents are some how using this measurement as a comparison with it being seen as taller kids somehow being better.


Alison
April 14, 2009 / 10:31

I agree with you about the comparisons but my experience has been opposite. My son untill this year (age 9)been the tallest in class and back in the pre-school daycare days he often looked really out of place with his peers and people often assumed he was much older and therefore had higher expectations. I used to get very tired of explaining that yes he was big, yes luckily I had a c-section, no he's not too old for a stroller or to be carried by Mom and dad, he's 2 for goodness sake!

Even though I understand that you can't actually be over the 99th percentile, at every well baby visit I went to, my Doctor told me that for height, weight etc my son was "not on the chart"...I finally figured out that the chart was very outdated and that was why...I just wanted to fill in the blank in my baby book for goodness sake!

I think it all comes down to everyone sort of competing to see who'd kid is "better", like somehow you are a better parent because you kid is off the chart tall, or gifted in school, or music or sports. I find all parental "comparisons" disturbing...work or stay at home Mom, circumcize or not, breast or bottle, soccer or hockey, competitive level or house league, french immersion or core french, music or dance... many parents are all convinced that their kids are "better" ie. taller, faster, smarter, more creative, funnier...IT'S NOT A COMPETITION FOLKS!!!!


Tania
April 14, 2009 / 15:09

I agree that we parents are too competitive. Everybody - get over it! There is no comparison; my kid is the best! (just kidding) I guess if we looked at this from another angle, at least we parents must really love our children if we believe that they are so much better than their peers, though I would like to see us celebrate their individuality more instead of trying to one-up the other parents with our proclamations of greatness. Maybe we should make light. Really? Your three-year-old can read? My grade three kid can't read yet! Wow - you must be a much better parent than me, aren't you?


nutritionist Houston
August 29, 2010 / 09:09

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GrowTallerEasily
August 30, 2010 / 13:07

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